Hmmm

The second husband called that he was in the neighborhood and wanted to come see me. He is not giving up. Of course he comes with tales of doing better and finally finding a good counselor. Wanting to bring the girls gifts for Christmas and asking me what I want. I don't want anything from him I was already thinking he was a figment of my imagination and I think the girls were getting better at realizing we are not together anymore. The oldest was very happy to see him. The middle one could care less. The little one sees him of more of a dad than her own dad so she was happy. I was not. I don't want him to think that he has a chance, I think he believes he does. He hurt me too much and I have no feelings for him. I am glad he has found someone to counsel him but there was more wrong with the relation than just his anger. We are not compatible at all. I outgrew him. I am constantly growing and he likes to stay where he is. There is no way I will go back with him. He is in for a rude awakening. I don't want to cause him pain but he is setting himself up for it.