Update

I am all moved in. 2 of 3 have started the school year super happy. I have an appointment for the youngest school.

The Mr called me today and asked if I thought this was ending in divorce and I said yes and he said he has a lawyer already and is going to fight alimony which he has paid this past month.

He says that when he tells people why I left they scoff and can't believe that was it? he is only telling him that he got mad and threw the dog in the cage down the stairs and he got mad at the grocery store and threw his walkie talkie; oh poor thing, that's all!? he makes it sound so innocent. Did he mentioned that he had him pressed between his legs while he was pulling the dogs snout apart? did he? how about that the dog defecated himself while he was doing this and crying and because me struggling and begging him to let him go was not enough he also had to kick the cage and then throw it down two flights of stairs and then picked up the cage and threw it out the door to the garage.

Did he also mentioned that he was angry at the super market because he was tired from work. Did he mentioned how he had previously hurt the dog by pressing his neck down to the floor. How about how everyone is out to get him and he stopped taking his meds and when he says things he doesn't remember them and it is not that he doesn't remember them is that we never had the conversation. He doesn't think women have a right to anything. He seems to love that the bible says that a woman is to keep quiet in the temple. He is a caveman at heart. He wanted me to stay home he supported that. When I mentioned me going to school he was not happy because his insecurity told him I was going to leave him.

Did he mention how high maintenance he is, even if he hammers a nail I have to pet him on the head and tell him good boy and celebrate it.

Did he mentioned how demeaning he can be by teaching my father how to use a drill. My father is 68 yrs old and has built many things. He even asked me one day if I knew what the lines on the streets are for...he got offended when I said it doesn't take a rocket scientist.

Did he mentioned how pessimistic and negative he is and how he has to win every conversation. How he doesn't see the purpose of traveling to see new things and learn new cultures.

He says I did not give him any warning. What about all the conversations we had where he got too defensive to continue. How he has 2 personalities the one that kindly offered to help me with money and the one that called today and just like that is not going to help me. The evil one comes out more often or after saying something nice he poops on it by saying something hurtfull.

Did he mentioned that after the last dog thing I started to see the psychologist because I was traumatized? that I contacted the psychologist with having marital problems. I asked him to come and found a thousand and one reasons why not. Oh now he seeing someone.

He fooled me when we met, I only saw the nice. He said he was going to church; I think he went twice and that was to impress me and no more. He said his family was close and that could not have been further from the truth. If his brother did not call him he would not call him because he did not want to hear him. His dad has cancer and he would not call him either and said that if he dies it would take a load off his shoulders.

Now he is sweet, loving, calmed; which is creepy to me because I know that is not him and today evil- his true self.

I would love to get an annulment.

I have a lawyer too and tomorrow is my consultation.

To Be Continued......